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Liberty Bradford's avatar

Beautiful, rich, resonant. Your ghosts have been heard.

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Robin du Plessis's avatar

I agree with rich and resonant writing of grief.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks so much Robin.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thank you Liberty.

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Heather's avatar

Beautiful alchemy, Pia. I love the idea of a warm and cozy time to commemorate and grieve. Your ghosts are lovingly attached to your heart.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks Heather, every year I try to get a little better at making time.

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Diane oshima's avatar

Hopefully it will help you to know how your open heart fits so many others. Beautiful Pia, and I also understand better why you can swim in the freezing Bay!

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks Diane. The freezing bay helps everything!

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Wendy Pepper's avatar

Super resonated with this one. Great piece of writing here.

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Bonna Flynn's avatar

Beautifully stated. A Day of the Dead altar might be a way to let your ghosts be with you, talk to them, comfort you.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Love that idea Bonna. I have never done it physically, just in my head.

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Jenny Douglas's avatar

This is beautiful, and helps me to get in touch with my own “grief ghosts.” Thank you.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks Jenny. ❤️

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Hilary Carpenter's avatar

Great read! Has me thinking of my own Christmas ghosts. Happy birthday

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks Hilary. Sending love.

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Alisa Kennedy Jones's avatar

Oh, how poignant and loving.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks so much Alisa.

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Lisa Van Dyk's avatar

This was absolutely stunning, Pia. Thank you for sharing your ghosts with us, and for acknowledging that this is a bittersweet time of year for so many people.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thank you Lisa ❤️

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c white's avatar

So very lovely and wise, say I from Mexico.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks Catherine. ❤️

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Ali Lopez's avatar

Absolutely beautiful writing, Pia. And I also read the Alta piece.... wow! So much there. I look forward to reading your memoir.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks so much for your support Ali, working on draft #4.

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Robin du Plessis's avatar

Thank you for sharing your grief story. I think we all have these ghosts in our lives. I know I do.

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks for reading Robin. I hope you find time to care for yourself and welcome yours.

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Emily Ozer's avatar

Thank you for sharing your beautiful framing of grief. May their memories be a blessing to you. That is an old Jewish expression I didn’t fully understand until I experienced profound losses. Hope swimming or something else you love helps feel the blessing of their memories ❤️

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Pia Hinckle's avatar

Thanks Emily. I know and love that expression. May the memories of yours be a blessing to you too. Swimming helps me get back in my body.

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